This week on Girl Stop Talking, Tatum is giving you TWO positions that tie into the topic of todays episode! We're getting honest about the difference between what turns us on in our imagination and what we genuinely want in real life. From fantasies about surrender, attention, control, being watched, and adding another person, we’re asking the bigger question: Do you want the actual experience—or the feeling you believe it would give you?Your fantasy is not a relationship emergency—and it definitely isn’t automatically a request, confession, or item on your sexual to-do list.After sharing her Healthy Habits and this week’s POW, Tatum breaks fantasies into three categories: **Fantasy, Flirt, or Full Send** She also explores why hearing a partner’s fantasy can trigger jealousy or insecurity, how to share yours without making it a demand, and how couples can borrow the hottest ingredients from a fantasy without recreating the entire scenario.Because yo

Girl Stop Talking is officially getting back to its roots: equal parts healthy habits and explicit behavior.We’re kicking things off with a weekly win and a little mindset check before diving headfirst into the return of the POS series—and yes, that stands for Position of the Week. I tried a new position, and naturally, we need to discuss what happened, how it went, and whether it deserves a repeat performance.Then we’re throwing it all the way back to my first Labor Day weekend at the lake, when a couple in an open relationship somehow became convinced that my man and I were hiding—and possibly sleeping with—his girlfriend. What should have been a fun lake weekend quickly turned into a full-blown nightmare inside our RV…and trust me, the truth was nowhere near as scandalous as they imagined.That story opens the door to a bigger conversation about open relationships: why people are drawn to them, what makes the idea exciting, why the ones I’ve